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How Glam is this dog?

A few weeks ago I was fortunate enough to win some super cute duds for our dog.  Nicole at Apron Strings Aflutter had a great giveaway for our four-legged friends, and I was one of the prize winners.  The lucky recipient was Molly.

Princess Molly Fluffer (yes, that is her real name!)

Princess Molly Fluffer (yes, that is her real name!)

Our beloved little Shih Tzu puppy  is a great sport about her attire.  The girls love to dress her up, and she must like it too – she’s never tried to run, and she poses for pictures.  Yup, we’re THOSE people.  But in my own defense, I will say that we’ve never had formal pictures taken and we’ve never taken her to meet Santa.  Not that there’s anything wrong with that.

So yesterday, Molly’s designer duds arrived in the form of a pink hoodie with zebra-print trim.  How cute is this?

Molly and her new zebra-print hoodie

Molly and her new zebra-print hoodie

We also got a $25 gift certificate to Doggie Vogue which I can’t wait to use!  They have so many cute things, the tough part will be deciding what to buy.  Of course they have supplies and toys and books and lots of other things besides just clothes, but knowing my little fashionistas, there will be no consideration of anything other than tiny little dresses and hairbows.

And with a doggie this cute, who can blame them?

Isn't she sweet?

Isn't she sweet?

Besides, she really does need hairbows.  I took them out to brush her hair, and this is what she looks like without them:

Bad hair day

Bad hair day

A tad on the Cousin It side, wouldn’t you say?

Thank you so much to Doggie Vogue for the super cute new outfit, and thank you to Nicole for hosting this giveaway!

An open letter to Mattel

Dear Mattel,

I have been a loyal fan and customer of your company for many years.  I played with Uno and Matchbox and View Master and Magic 8 Ball and Little People as a child.  I still have my Hot Wheels City, which my daughters now enjoy.  I never gave up my love for Little People, and I have one of the most extensive collections in existence today.  Given the ever-climbing prices, I’m sure your company has made at least a year’s salary off of me, let alone what I’ve purchased for my children and their friends.

And speaking of purchases for my children, we have a Power Wheels (check!), Loving Family Twin Time dollhouse with every. single. add-on (check!).  We’ve got the Learn Through Music system, two PowerTouch systems, 30+ Barbies, assorted Polly Pockets, the entire series of Snap N Styles (both dolls and clothes).  We had Fisher Price baby gear from swings to bouncers to jumparoos, and the entire aquarium and rainforest collections. 

And of course there is American Girl. Many claim that your takeover of the company resulted in inferior products, and they proudly advertise their pre-Mattel wares, but not me.  I loved them as Pleasant Company pre-and post-Mattel, and with each new catalog we find more to love.  You had me at first glance.

Another of our loves has always been Dora.  The adorable, spunky, adventuresome little Dora, who taught my girls some of their first Spanish words and whose CDs have changed the way I hear The Rhythm is Gonna Get’cha forever. (it’s kind of creepy when Swiper sings it)  Dora has been a part of our lives for the past 5+ years. We have the Dora house, again with every accessory ever made.  We have the Dora castle, with every accessory ever made. (See a theme  here?)  We have Dora books, DVDs, CDs, computer games, board games, clothing, pajamas, toys…  I have hosted three separate Dora birthday parties, own two Dora Knows Your Name dolls, and have even made my children more than one outfit with Dora fabric.  Suffice it to say, we’re fans.

Which brings me to ask…what are you thinking?  A new Dora?  Because the old one wasn’t successful enough?

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I understand that you’re having some issues.  Fourth quarter sales of the Barbie flagship were down 21 percent.  It stings.  I understand.  But what you are doing to Dora will not help that situation.  And dare I even say it, I don’t believe it will work.

I’m a mom.  I’m your target audience.  If you think my children are, you are wrong.  I control what my children watch and play with.  I am the one spending the money – and I know you want my money – which means you need to make me happy.  Tweenage Dora will not do that.

I have read the reviews.  Her technology sounds very cool.  I’m sure she’ll start a new trend, and I’m sure many moms will buy her.  But I’m willing to go out on a limb and say that she doesn’t have staying power.  She has the initial cool factor and that’s it.  The original Dora, The Dora, has staying power because she is different.  Tweenage Dora is just another flibbertigibbet in a long line of foolish girl dolls.  If we want fluff we’ll buy Barbie.  Dora gives us substance.  Dora’s story has always been exactly what the other dolls are not.  Her appeal lies in her very different-ness, which you now want to take away.

We love that she goes on adventures and solves problems and isn’t afraid to get dirty.  We love that she is a tomboy and a princess both.  We love that she values her family and learns new things and conquers her fears.  We love that Dora is smart and unique and unlike all the other girls.  But this?

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This is not unique.  Tweenage Dora who lives in the big city, loves fashion, and comes with lip gloss, is, well…exactly the same as all the other options out there.  I don’t want the other options.  I want Dora.

She has to grow up you say?  Fine, let her grow up.  But let her grow up being true to herself, rather than conforming to society’s stereotype of what a girl should be.  Tween Dora could still be a soccer star, making chocolate with Abuela and showing girls that fashion is not always where it’s at.  She could be a role model for all the girls who don’t care about lip gloss, and would rather ride a skateboard in sneaks than wear a miniskirt and ballet flats.  She could be real, like she always has been, and instead you are making her phony.  If you want my dollar, Dora needs to be different.

Take a lesson from your American Girls.  In an economic recession, when Mattel’s profits were down an abysmal 46 percent, American Girl was the only division that was up (sales rose 5%).  For people to shell out $100 for a doll and $30 for an outfit during a recession, clearly something is very right over there.  Are you examining that at all Mattel?  Do you understand it?  Because I do. 

American Girls are different.  I was one of those shoppers who helped your sales rise last quarter, because more than half of my three daughter’s Christmas presents were American Girl dolls, clothes, accessories, books, movies…you name it, we’ve got it.  I can get an inexpensive look-alike at Target, but I am willing to pay 5 times more for an American Girl doll for two reasons.  Quality and character. 

I want the story lines that come with the American Girls.  I am buying their story as much as I am their appearance.  I like that they all have different looks and interests and character traits.  I like that they teach my daughters that it’s ok to be different, that it’s important to be true to yourself, that standing up for what you believe, even when it is difficult, is admirable.  Mattel, you have succeeded with American Girl.  Please pay attention to that success.  You can duplicate it at a lower price point.  You can duplicate it with a tween Dora.  But you can’t duplicate it with the mini-skirted fashionista you are proposing.

My daughters are bombarded with images of the girls they are expected to become, and the images are all frighteningly similar.  Cute clothes, long hair, frivolous accessories.  Where is the substance?  Where is the intelligence, the savvy, the daring to be different?  We don’t need another tween doll, we need something different.  The way Dora used to be.

Sincerely,

A Concerned Mom

The (cheap) wine project

I have a favor to ask of you.  It involves you drinking wine. 

Do I have your attention now?

I am working on a new page for the blog which will contain wine reviews.  I want both the good and the bad, so we know what to look for and what to avoid at all costs. 

On a personal note, I like the cheap stuff.

Not Boone’s Farm kind of cheap (though I’m not knocking it – every wine has it’s time and place, including all manners of hooch).  Just inexpensive.

The kind that you won’t hesitate to spontaneously buy, even when it’s not on sale.  The budget-friendly-even-in-a-recession kind.  The wine we do not cut from the budget ever.  That kind.

Not that I don’t appreciate good wine – I most certainly do.  A decade+ ago I worked in a 5-star restaurant and learned a lot about what makes a wine great.  I was fortunate enough to be able to enjoy that great wine at bargain prices too.  But what I once enjoyed wholesale gives me sticker shock retail.  ‘How much?  For something we will drink?  It will be ALL GONE?  Ummm…no.’

Anyway…I welcome reviews of all price ranges, but I personally am focusing on the cheap more affordable varieties.  (Hint – the less it costs, the more you can buy)

I’m making note of every bottle we open and I will be adding a new tab shortly.  I hope to add to this list on an ongoing basis, and while I do love wine I can’t afford to drink it all, so I welcome your input.  My goal is to have a fairly comprehensive list of budget-friendly wines we can all refer to and enjoy.

So there’s a project for you this weekend.

Go, drink lots of wine, and report back.

Do-able, right?

Last minute gift idea

Another great Mary find (Mary you are so cool!)

Check out Wordle and make your own personalized gifts, ready to print and frame at home. For FREE! As my dad would say, ya can’t beat that with a stick! ;)

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Calphalon!

Big Thanks to Mary for pointing out this Amazon steal! If you need new pots and pans, check these out:

Calphalon bargains on Amazon!
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Last minute shopping deals!

A little public service announcement for my friends who may still be shopping… Amazon has some incredible deals right now! And even more awesome is that all of the ones I’ve listed below can ship for free with Super Saver Shipping – woo-hoo! I’ve been done with our Christmas shopping for quite a while now, but Lilly’s bday is in January and Annie’s is in February, so a couple of these deals have come in pretty handy.

In case you are still shopping for a child or two, here are a few I’ve stumbled across (most I found myself, but a few were pointed out to me by friends at HCTS – love those gals!):

Sweet Lily Castle

Rose Petal Cottage

Cherry Blossom Market

Smart Cycle

Computer Cool School

Busy Ball-Tivity Center

Girl Gourmet Cupcake Maker

Kid Tough Cameras

U-Dance

Holiday Hannah Montana doll

Honeybee Hop

If you notice any other great deals please let me know so I can add to my list. I love bargains!!!

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Car seat, anyone?

I know this is a bit odd, but my friend Jen just pointed out this amazing deal on a Britax Marathon carseat and I need to share it with someone! We don’t need any carseats, but I’m sure someone does and a $300 seat for $43 sounds pretty sweet to me!

http://www.target.com/gp/detail.html/ref=huc_ja_1_img/179-2142435-3823939?ie=UTF8&ASIN=B000YSNMG2&nodeID=&merchantID=A1VC38T7YXB528
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Maybe what goes around really does come around

Annie’s going to Vacation Bible School this week and she is loving it! It’s her first time ever.

So after I picked her up at noon we were discussing what to buy Daddy for Father’s Day. I have a few ideas but nothing concrete. Annie told me that she had a great idea and she was going to pay for it herself, but Daddy forgot to pay out her allowance on Sunday. She then pointed out that I should be the one in charge of her allowance since Daddy always forgets. Or tries to give her money that is already hers. (He once had no cash in his wallet and attempted to give her Disney Dollars that were in the china cabinet, but my savvy 5 year old knew that was not a fair deal. And apparently she has neither forgiven nor forgotten.)

So back to the idea – she wants to buy him a wii game. I’m not sure what to tell her. It’s a very sweet idea, but Chris works a lot and doesn’t do a whole lot of wii playing. As I tried to come up with a way to let her down easy, she said that she just knew Daddy would love the Go, Diego, Go! game she had in mind.

Selfless huh? But I’m amused to see that she’s just a chip off the old block. The Daddy block that is. He has, over the years, treated me to such generous presents as:

-the Sunday NFL ticket. So I never have to miss a game.
-an $85 universal remote. For a large entertainment system I can barely understand.
-a new set of luggage, just before he went to Paris for two weeks. Without me.
-an insanely large and expensive grill. Because women love grills.

I’m sure there are more, but I’ll stop here. Suffice it to say he’s quite the giver. And I’m tempted to let his daughters purchase the intended gift for him, just so he knows how it feels. Maybe I’ll even chip in for that new snap press that I, I mean he, has been wanting. Because I love him that much.

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PS) Before you go feeling bad for him, just stay tuned. I’ll be bragging about him in a day or two. He’s fabulous in 98% of what he does. But when he’s less than fabulous, well…he really does that with gusto too. ;)

Oh yeah baby, Christmas in June

Guess who is half done with her kids Christmas shopping? Oh yeah, that would be ME! I am so darn proud of myself.

I shop early every year, but this year I hope to be completely done by September. The holiday selling season is insanely busy and has a huge profit potential, so I’ve set my sights on selling again this year. Two years ago was hard because we were moving and I was quite pregnant so I didn’t do much then. This past season I was just having a hard time getting 3 kids out to shop with me! But this year hopefully things will look up. I’m pretty limited being that I live in a town with only ONE store, but I’m gonna try my best!

Back to topic…The girls are getting several American Girls items this year, since it seems to be their latest obsession. (Can’t wait for that Kit movie in July!) Not sure what else yet and I know realistically I have to wait until closer to the holiday so I can get those current requests, but they better be small ones!

I’m also trying to scale back on the size and volume of our gift giving. Yes, I say that every year, but this year I really mean it! We are running out of house to put large toys and I don’t like the clutter. I’m going for gifts that don’t take up as much space, and fewer of them. I inherited from my father a tendency to go ever so slightly insane when it comes to Christmas shopping. On Christmas morning our living room looks like a mini Target store with everything in coordinating gift wrap.

I know several people who give their children each 3 Christmas presents. The reasoning being that Jesus only got 3, so why should we get any more? I felt like crawling into a hole with shame when I first heard that. My philosophy has always been more like why give 3 when you could give 73 instead? Yikes! Do I remind myself of that VeggieTales song? Jingle Jingle Jingle Ka-ching!

In my own defense, we do 6 shoe boxes for Operation Christmas Child, and we always buy for at least 2 people off of the Angel Tree. I’m not a completely materialistic pig. I just have so darn much fun buying that I find it hard to stop myself. (Just ask Chris about the bills that roll in – oy.)

Enough babbling for one night. Feliz Navidad my friends!

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