We did it – we had a date!
After just recently blogging about our lack of alone time, we were presented with such an opportunity last Saturday night. My parents invited all 3 girls to spend the night with them, so we had a free evening on our hands. I have to admit that I was more than a little tempted to spend it checking items off of my lengthy to-do list (taxes still undone, bathroom I want to paint, underground pet fence to finish…) But I refrained, and Chris and I actually had a very nice, indulgent, RARE do-nothing night together.
We started by going for a spray tan. Romantic right? I know. But we leave for Disney in 5 short days, and I’d like to not have glowing white legs when we arrive. I opted for the Versa Spa at Sun Tan City since it was half-price weekend, and I was quite pleased…though it’s a tad cold when it’s sprayed on. Took my breath away a bit. Since I was going to look all tan and beautiful tan, my husband decided he’d go for it as well. I took advantage of his absence and bought myself 4 new bottles of overpriced but fabulous OPI nail polish. At 20% off, I’d be crazy not to, right?
However, modest as he is, Chris remained, um – how shall I say this? - partially clothed while he was sprayed. His exact words aren’t publishable, but they involved him expressing concern about the chemicals that might be in the spray, and what damage they might do to sensitive body parts. He tells me this only after we leave, at which point I have a good laugh at his expense and point out that he can now consider the bottom half of his wardrobe ruined. He didn’t believe me for several more hours. Fool.
From there we were off to the movies, where we saw Taken. It was a very intense movie, and I was on edge through the whole thing. Perhaps having daughters myself made it more personal, but it definitely struck a nerve with me. And it was rated PG-13, which was a refreshing change. I love watching good, thrilling movies that aren’t filled with smut or foul language, and they are unfortunately hard to find.
Side topic here: How much does it cost to go to the movies where you live? Chris paid so I didn’t look at the individual prices, but our movie theater offers free refills on large popcorn and soda. We shared one of each, and our total with tickets was $21. Not too bad, I think. Definitely a lot cheaper than it was in Louisville.
Anyway, from there we went to Chili’s and enjoyed the Triple Dipper Dinner, many Appletinis, and college basketball. Ok, so I didn’t really enjoy that last one. But it was present, and the Appletinis took away some of its annoying qualities, so it wasn’t all bad. Reality came crashing back when we had to stop at Wal-Mart to buy diapers on the way home, but it was actually a fun stop. We’d completely forgotten what it was like to go to the store sans little people. Much faster and much less whiny. Love that.
And we returned home to play some Uno before turning in…and sleeping until 10am! Unheard of!
All in all it was a really great night, and I’m so glad we were able to do it. Such a small thing I know, especially to those of you who do this more than once every 2 years, but for us it was a really rare treat. Big thanks to Mom and Dad for making it possible. I know they wanted the kids to come over so they could enjoy time together, and I know that the girls certainly did, but Mommy and Daddy did too. We missed each other. 
Entertainment, The Stay-at-Home Mom Gig | Heather March 23, 2009
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By Rick Boyer, March 23, 2009 @ 4:52 pm
Well said
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By Jodi, March 23, 2009 @ 8:35 pm
That happens to us too – we’ll go out on date night, then swing by Target or Walmart to pick up diapers! LOL!
Glad you had fun!
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By Darcie - Such The Spot, March 24, 2009 @ 9:28 am
Dinner and a movie *and* a tan? Now that’s the way to do it.
We frequently stop by Target on our date nights. Not for diapers, but just to look around. It’s so much better without the pleas to look in the toy department…
Good for you two. Any hope of turning it into a more regular thing?
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By Julie From Inmates, March 24, 2009 @ 11:09 am
The whole tan thing cracked me up. fool. *still laughing* I would never think to do a spray tan.. that seems like an awesome alternative to the whole cancer bed thing.
Your evening sounded glorious!
Enjoy your time at Disney =)
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By Kate, March 24, 2009 @ 6:33 pm
Sounds like heaven!! We’ve been able to make it out for two-hour blocks more regularly. Love spending that time with DH! And BTW, 10 A.M.!?! I’m beyond jealous…
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By Jo Y, March 25, 2009 @ 5:10 pm
Sounds fantastic Heather, I bet your husbands tan marks are hilarious LOL. You managed to fit lots into your evening, maybe your parents will have the girls again for you
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By Tracym, March 26, 2009 @ 2:12 pm
Uno? is that what they are calling it now? lol
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By Lynette, March 31, 2009 @ 12:12 pm
This is pretty funny, since I can totally relate. My husband & I got to go on a date the 28th. My step-adult daughter took our 7 yr.old son for the night and we went to see…”TAKEN”, then to “Outbacks” and then to “Bed, Bath & Beyond”. Our movie was $14.00 for tickets and $15.25 for refillable popcorn & drinks + a box of Goobers. We didn’t play UNO…I think Tracym hit it on the head…that’s not what WE call it! My husband refers to it as “cheesecake”, it is so good you want lots, but so rich you can only have 1 piece! HA!
To top it all off, we realized it was our 18th Wedding Anniversary! So nice to do something “ADULT” for a change. (Although we miss our son the whole time!)
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